Becoming the Countess - A Self Indulgent Bio

I am Countess Piroska Bathory. Before I became a Countess I worked as a professional dominatrix, as well as a fetish model, writer and performer, under the professional name Amber Wylde. This blog contains experiences and fantasies of my current self, the disabled  Countess, and memoirs of Amber.

My career as Amber Wylde ended in the late 90’s so that I could raise a family. By 2007, my children were old enough that I was able to re-enter the bdsm lifestyle. I gravitated towards my Hungarian cousins on my father’s side of the family, who were in the “biz”. During a particularly aggressive session with my cousin Theresa and a lazy, impudent sub I burst a blood vessel in my basal ganglia and suffered a stroke, losing use of my left side. I have spent the last 4 years in rehabilitation, enduring numerous surgeries and procedures. The experience has not made me kinder and gentler, but only less able to access playthings.

I was named after my great, great aunt, who was named after a Hungarian saint.

I found this definition of Piroska  in the Urban Dictionary:

“The name "Piroska" is one of Hungarian descent, and is most usually found among the women with utmost class and sophistication. Material items mean little to Piroska, as she'd be much happier to surround herself with friends, family, good food, and horror movies. Great gifts to give her are Alien figurines, Hand lotions, and Salami.

Piroska is the epitome of a hard worker, but at the same time, she knows how to relax and take things one day at a time. Having learned many lessons in life, she has wisdom for all and will laugh in the face of a challenge. She loves strongly and accepts others for their faults within reasonable degrees. She's the best friend you could ever hope to meet, and is always there to support you in your endeavors and dreams.”

It describes me fairly well, though the gift suggestions made me laugh!

I also like to whisper and want you to tell me all your secrets. And if I like you, I will use those secrets against you for my own amusement.

Piroska is also the Hungarian name of Little Red Riding Hood.

I am going to write down my naughty thoughts and play privately until I can find a suitable sub that can bring me out to play parties. I need someone to roll my wheelchair, handle my cane, tend to my needs and protect my safety. The reward will be to bask in my presence and have special private playtime.

I only use the title Countess when I am at play. If you call me that you are inviting me to play with you, so don’t be surprised if sweet, kindly Piroska becomes a vicious Gypsy!

I enjoy spanking, sensation play, blindfolds, floggers, riding crops, CBT, directed masturbation, anal play, and being worshipped  and adored. I would especially enjoy an intelligent pen pal with time to correspond daily. As a professional I participated in a wide array of activities. I would naturally adapt to each player’s individual preferences. And a player would have to adapt to me, I am unable to walk long distances or stand for long periods, I only have use of one hand, so a sub would need to assist in their own bondage or would need to practice mental bondage.  My writing illustrates my play style.